falling for your back-up plan

I started out 2018 with a lot of positivity. Too much positivity, maybe, when I promised that I would post two times a week and then spent Tuesday afternoon through Saturday afternoon struggling to find both motivation or inspiration. I’ve been thinking all day today “am I really not going to post the FIRST Saturday of the year after I just said I would post … Continue reading falling for your back-up plan

when is the right time to define the relationship?

Does anyone know? Seriously?? I am genuinely hoping that my Tinder/Bumble days are numbered and that my soulmate is also passing time by swiping left and right in his bed right now. Ideally, he will be much braver than me when it comes to the defining the relationship discussion and I won’t have to be the one to bring it up. Unfortunately, that doesn’t appear … Continue reading when is the right time to define the relationship?

why do we always want what we can’t have

Does anyone else seem to have a problem of always wanting the completely unavailable guy? It seems every time I having feelings for someone, it’s someone who is caught up on his ex girlfriend, potentially taking a job offer in a different location, in a relationship with someone else, and overall completely unavailable to me. My first instinct is to always blame this on the … Continue reading why do we always want what we can’t have

21st century dating

Growing up, I can remember both of my parents telling me stories about the dates they would go on, both with each other and with other boyfriends/girlfriends prior to their meeting. Dating sounded like it was something fun and enjoyable because there were so many activities associated with it, and my parents seemed to have fond memories of it. Casual dating did not even mean … Continue reading 21st century dating