why I don’t mind being single on valentines day

For many people, Valentine’s Day is a holiday that is all about showing your significant other how much you love him or her by buying flowers, greeting cards, chocolate, lingerie, etc. For me, I have always looked at it as just another day because shouldn’t you always be showing your significant other how much you love and appreciate him or her? Oddly enough, in my … Continue reading why I don’t mind being single on valentines day

if bad timing doesn’t exist, what is good timing?

Recently I have seen this post going around that says something along the lines of there being no such thing as bad timing, because if two people were meant to be together, the timing would be right no matter what, or timing wouldn’t matter, or something like that. Okay, I actually just really, really butchered that but I feel like you still get what I … Continue reading if bad timing doesn’t exist, what is good timing?

dinner, drinks, and disastrous dates

Online dating is portrayed by online dating sites and apps to be fun, flirtatious, and a great way to get to know people. While it can sometimes be these things, I regret to inform you that there are some really shitty guys (and probably girls) out there. I felt like it was necessary to put together a collaborative post that really encompassed some of the … Continue reading dinner, drinks, and disastrous dates

can you lose something you never had?

I was watching the movie “How to Lose a Guy in Ten Days” and the part where Andie Anderson (Kate Hudson) says “you can’t lose something you never had” really got me thinking. There are too many guys I’ve dated that I never really dated – you know, we “talked” but we never officially dated. So how come when we stopped hanging out/talking/whatever we stopped … Continue reading can you lose something you never had?

falling for your back-up plan

I started out 2018 with a lot of positivity. Too much positivity, maybe, when I promised that I would post two times a week and then spent Tuesday afternoon through Saturday afternoon struggling to find both motivation or inspiration. I’ve been thinking all day today “am I really not going to post the FIRST Saturday of the year after I just said I would post … Continue reading falling for your back-up plan