falling for your back-up plan

I started out 2018 with a lot of positivity. Too much positivity, maybe, when I promised that I would post two times a week and then spent Tuesday afternoon through Saturday afternoon struggling to find both motivation or inspiration. I’ve been thinking all day today “am I really not going to post the FIRST Saturday of the year after I just said I would post … Continue reading falling for your back-up plan

when is the right time to define the relationship?

Does anyone know? Seriously?? I am genuinely hoping that my Tinder/Bumble days are numbered and that my soulmate is also passing time by swiping left and right in his bed right now. Ideally, he will be much braver than me when it comes to the defining the relationship discussion and I won’t have to be the one to bring it up. Unfortunately, that doesn’t appear … Continue reading when is the right time to define the relationship?

cleaning out my closet and decluttering my life

These past couple weeks I’ve been going through my closet getting rid of so many clothes, accessories, and shoes, that I have been holding on to for far too long. I always convince myself that I will definitely wear a shirt again or I think what if I need that dress after I’ve gotten rid of it? But too often I never wear the shirt … Continue reading cleaning out my closet and decluttering my life

from being ghosted to being haunted

Why are there so many new terms that go along with dating? When I try to explain to adults (yes I know I’m an adult but I’m not a real adult) what “talking” is, I feel like I’m trying to explain what the color yellow looks like to someone who cannot see. Adults always say “so it’s like you’re dating?” and I’m like “NO!! WE’RE NOT … Continue reading from being ghosted to being haunted