When I was younger, my dad always used to tell me that there are two things you never discuss with people you don’t really know – religion and politics. As I grew up and became aware of the controversy surrounding both of these topics, I understood why this was something my dad believed in. However, with the current political state in America, I think that … Continue reading politics and dating
Who wins in a break up? Is it the person who actually, verbally ends the relationship? Is it the person who packs up the other’s stuff and gives it back, first? Is it the first person to go out and get obliterated – looking like they are having a great time post-breakup to all their mutual friends? If you answered yes to any of these, … Continue reading the race to move on first
I started out 2018 with a lot of positivity. Too much positivity, maybe, when I promised that I would post two times a week and then spent Tuesday afternoon through Saturday afternoon struggling to find both motivation or inspiration. I’ve been thinking all day today “am I really not going to post the FIRST Saturday of the year after I just said I would post … Continue reading falling for your back-up plan
Does anyone know? Seriously?? I am genuinely hoping that my Tinder/Bumble days are numbered and that my soulmate is also passing time by swiping left and right in his bed right now. Ideally, he will be much braver than me when it comes to the defining the relationship discussion and I won’t have to be the one to bring it up. Unfortunately, that doesn’t appear … Continue reading when is the right time to define the relationship?
These past couple weeks I’ve been going through my closet getting rid of so many clothes, accessories, and shoes, that I have been holding on to for far too long. I always convince myself that I will definitely wear a shirt again or I think what if I need that dress after I’ve gotten rid of it? But too often I never wear the shirt … Continue reading cleaning out my closet and decluttering my life
Why are there so many new terms that go along with dating? When I try to explain to adults (yes I know I’m an adult but I’m not a real adult) what “talking” is, I feel like I’m trying to explain what the color yellow looks like to someone who cannot see. Adults always say “so it’s like you’re dating?” and I’m like “NO!! WE’RE NOT … Continue reading from being ghosted to being haunted
After being single for a little over a year, I’ve really gotten a good taste of what being single is about nowadays. Honestly being single is so weird. I don’t understand why it’s portrayed as if it is so fun in movies because we all know it’s really not. I like to think I’m single because no one I have met has been good enough … Continue reading i’ll bend but refuse to break